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Do not do it! Sure, you broke up with your boyfriend and you feel sad or maybe you feel like you want revenge. Unless you know what you’re doing, don’t even think about all those terrible but maybe satisfying things you could do to her. Instead, consider these 4 tips to get back at an ex-boyfriend and yet maintain his dignity and not do anything you might regret later.

Tip #1

Take some action to make yourself more attractive to others. Not only to be more physically attractive to other men, but to be more alive and transmit good vibes to people. It is true that people are attracted to others who seem strong, healthy and happy.

If you immediately get to work with regular workouts and do some yoga or some other formal exercise and wellness plan, that’s a great start. Try a new hairstyle. What will give you more confidence? Sometimes it can be a new pair of shoes or a sexy short dress that makes you feel more desirable. But this has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with strength, self-confidence and being in control.

Tip #2

As you work on your self-image and build some confidence, be sure to meet up with some of the mutual friends you and your ex have. Or if you run into your ex out on the town, that’s great too, but wherever you go, you need to focus on yourself! You need to find happiness with your independence and growing inner strength, and don’t even think about your ex right now. Your friends and their friends will notice this. To avenge your ex boyfriend in the most effective way, you want him to believe that you are getting stronger and happier without him!

Tip #3

At some point, your ex boyfriend is likely to call you, as he is very curious that you seem to be okay or better off without him. When you do talk, don’t bring up your relationship or past problems, and definitely don’t come across as angry or spiteful about the breakup, even if you hate it. Why? The best revenge is not a direct approach with jokes, or hurtful actions or statements. If you do those things, he might get satisfaction from thinking that you can’t function well without him. Men feel especially powerful in this situation and acts of revenge can backfire.

You also don’t want to do or say anything that makes him think your goal is to get back together. Whether it is or not. No, you want to have a nice conversation with your ex like you would with a friend, but leave him thinking that you are completely indifferent to him romantically. The most effective way to avenge your ex boyfriend again is to make him believe that you are strong without him. I guarantee this will really piss him off, whether he wants you back or hates you. You can win either way with this approach.

Tip #4

At this point, if your ex is no longer interested in you, he will probably fade away. Your actions to this point will have dispelled any desire for him to seek revenge. If he keeps in touch with you or “runs into you,” then you’ll know why: he loves you more than ever. If you want him, let him go through all the motions first and even then he responds very slowly and tries to date someone innocent for a while. You are still getting your revenge by being in control and making him wait while you continue to improve and take your time to consider getting back together.