Are you soul mates or twin flames?
Everyone has a soulmate and a twin flame. Soulmates are those people you resonate with on a very deep level. Meeting a soulmate for the first time will give you a sense of familiarity and there will usually be a strong attraction. If you believe in reincarnation, soulmates are part of your soul family that incarnates as different people: father, mother, brother, sister, husband, wife, lover, or friend. They are people who help solve karmic problems with you. You have more than one soul mate and they are in your life to help you learn lessons so that you can become wise and powerful.
A twin flame is your other half. It is a soul that has become polarized into the male and female halves. It is the human model exemplified by the fact that Eve was created from Adam as his perfect match. According to tradition, the other half is usually on the other side helping you with earthly tasks, trials and tribulations. They are your most beloved guardian angel, they lift you up when you are down, they give you strength, hope and direction when you feel lost or alone. The closest phenomenon that we know to this experience is the birth of identical twins. They have a close telepathic relationship and consequently their lives are parallel. The search for our true soul mate is a need driven by deep unconscious love and longing imprinted on all of us. It is the story that myths are made of. More and more twin llamas are being born at the same time in the appropriate sexes and ages for intercourse. You are connecting at this time in history because you can manifest a very powerful form of unconditional love for one another that can help accelerate the spiritual growth of the planet. Unconditional love means the ability to forgive each other and forgiveness dissolves karmic ties. Helping these twins find each other and connect in meaningful ways is important for this love to grow, and it seems like hundreds are getting closer. The recent retrogression of Venus (the first in 2004 and the second in 2012) has accelerated our awareness of this phenomenon.
Carl Jung’s concept of the masculine and feminine halves is very similar to the symbol of taiji, there is a bit of feminine in the masculine and vice versa for balance, his famous “anima” and “animus”. We also understand the importance of balancing the yin (feminine) and yang (masculine) aspects not only within our own personalities, but also in a relationship. For example, if a couple is arguing, they are both yang or “active” and usually nothing is resolved because neither of them is listening. If one person is yin (receptive) while the other is yang or speaking, then the information can be absorbed. They can change the polarities as needed so that each can speak and be heard, but one should always have the opposite polarity for best results. In this way there is balance and progress.
All people have a twin flame and if you want to find or work with yours, there are prayers that can help. If your twin is not incarnate, you can work with your soulmate through your current soulmate relationship to manifest unconditional love and this will enhance your relationships. A very important skill to develop is learning to listen to your partner without judgment, and this is not as easy as it sounds. We all want and need to feel accepted, but listening without judgment means momentarily resting our personal needs and feelings. We must learn to help and support each other through this important human experience. Unconditional love means that you always love the person, even if they do something upsetting.
Do you know someone who has had a relationship that starts and stops a lot, it is intense, but also painful and difficult, but this person cannot give up the other easily? If it does, then they may be twin flames. There are ways to speed up the harmonious bonding process, and the advice of an experienced guide can be extremely valuable. Because each twin has free will, the union can be denied because the emotional aspect can be too overwhelming. All problems must arise to heal and this is what can make the relationship so difficult and prolonged. Often, one of the twins can still be rooted in other karmic relationships as well. If you or someone you know is experiencing this distress, please contact me for more information.