I have a confession to make… Sometimes I’m almost embarrassed to do it, but you’ll hear this. In fact, I’ve read every book ever written on or about picking up girls. In fact, I have spent months doing nothing but reading materials on the subject from dusk till dawn. I’ve long since outgrown that theoretical phase and mastered the art in the real world.
Looking back, I now have a chance to know which book was right and which was nonsense, and I have to say that Leil Lowndes’ Covert Sexual Signals is one of the best books on the subject. And I have only understood this by looking back from this perspective that I have today, after having tried, mastered and surpassed all the methods, strategies and ways of picking up girls.
What Leil says is what most girls will agree with, but most so-called “pickup gurus” will disagree. In fact, she uses Ockham’s razor and leads her to the number one secret that separates the men who are successful at picking up girls from the ones who are not. I denied this for many years, heck, most of the guys who make money teaching about this stuff still deny it… and they won’t accept the secret.
Can you guess what the secret is? The title of his book hints at it a bit. Let me give you another hint… The 80/20 principle. Have you ever heard of that one? It states that in any area, skill or art there is only one factor that generates 80-90% of the results, and the other 80-90 factors only generate 10-20% of the results. Well, this one thing that Leil Lowndes talks about, this secret is the ONLY thing that brings 80-90% of the results. Most guys who teach about picking up girls focus on the little details that only provide 10% of the results, this includes: what to say, when to say it, how to respond to things, when and how to get her number. , how to dress, how to overcome challenges, how to further escalate the interaction, when to call and how, when to text and strategies on how to text… Hell, there are entire encyclopedias, and they all represent only 10% of The results.
Let me finally reveal the secret that brings 90% of the results before your head explodes… The number one factor that determines where to pick up a girl successfully or not is if she is interested. And guess what, she’s already made that decision before you’ve even said a word! This hits the male ego in many ways, and many men deny it, trying to change it. Some guys come up with super intricate systems and ways to attract a woman to you. Hell, I was one of these guys, I spent years in that industry. Some guys spent 20 to 30 years involved in those methods. Guess what they have after 20 years of trying to deny the truth that Leil tells? About 20-30 random girls are approached to pick up a girl!
Guess what the proportion of results is for the guys who follow Leil’s strategy? Most men who are naturally good with women have this ratio… Around 80-90% success rate! What is the difference? These natives apply what Leil says, they walk into a room and read which women are looking to be picked up, and then read which girl would like to be picked up. By the time they’ve said hello, it’s really a formality. Unless you’re a complete mismatch or say the last thing wrong, you’ll still end up with her! If you made the correct selection, it doesn’t matter what you say or do.
And what Leil teaches you is that ability to read “covert sexual cues”, to be able to read which women are waiting for you to pick them up… And then she gives you simple guidance on how to approach them and what to do. say as a basic primer. All in all, this book will save you years of wasted effort trying to “hack the female attraction mechanism” or other futile attempts by snake oil salesmen. Accept the biological reality that is what women choose, and make the most of it.
If you think this is bad news… you are wrong! This does not mean that you will never be able to achieve your goal of dating a different girl every night. The good news is that there are a TON of women sending covert sexual signals wherever you go, you just never noticed them before! The even better news is something she doesn’t want to say, and I guess this is kind of the only criticism in the book of hers… You can up the number of women giving you covert signals! This is not a biologically set amount, in fact, just by the way you dress, act, walk, and talk to other people, you can increase the number of women who want to meet you by unseen amounts. These days, when my friends and I walk into a club, or just stroll through the streets, most female (and male) heads turn and stare. Everyone is thinking who are these guys, are they some celebrities, do I know them from somewhere? And all we’ve done is change how we dress, how we walk, and how we look to others. That is why I have dedicated my blog to what Leil misses, or rather assumes. She assumes that your attractiveness is where it is, and you just have to accept the reality, which is that women choose, and you just need to go and give yourself to the women who chose you. But what I have discovered and taught on my blog here is that you drastically change the number of women who choose you.
