when love dies
Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone they love so dearly will wish, against all odds, to win that love back again. But sometimes, a lost love is a love that is gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that has just died a natural death.
Free yourself, let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it can rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but it still won’t rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be many branches where you can rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over. It’s never too late. You can find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never die with it.”
You can’t be a redeemer all your life. The perfect way to test a relationship is through the litmus test. You can’t be sober with your mistake forever. We all fall down and make wrong decisions, but our mistakes are not meant to bury us deep in misery, but to teach us the valuable lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process… with love we learn to Care and Sacrifice. We learn to Share and Reach. We learn to be selfless and give more than we can. Then, when all doesn’t end well, we learn what it feels like to fall and get hurt.
But the learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that life doesn’t end where our heartaches begin. There is no future for a relationship of Lies and Selfishness. It is true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you let go of the past and let your heart heal and give you a chance to find yourself again.
The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice, not on impulse, but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that… “Happiness is not a matter of Destiny but of Choice”.
You don’t have to forget someone you love, what you need to learn is to accept the verdict of reality without getting bitter or feeling sorry for yourself. It would be better if you gave that dedication and that love to someone more servant.