A mother’s priorities
There is no person as amazing as a mother who knows her priorities. Some become mothers by mistake (a crazy moment) while others grow up and make the decision to improve their life from a girl to a mother. A mother who knows her place in a family has a lot of power and authority. Authority is given to a mother by virtue of being a senior member of a family and also by virtue of the mother’s role in the family. Just as we detail the priorities of a father, it is equally important to highlight what are the priorities of a mother in a family. This article seeks to reveal such truths to help young mothers and mothers-to-be. A mother who has no idea of her area of responsibility will always butt heads with her husband in areas of responsibility.
– Care and upbringing of the child – The mother carries the child from conception to delivery. Beyond that, the mother is the one who feeds the child and has the total care and upbringing of the child at close range. The father can play with the child from time to time, but the child is more connected with the mother until he stops breastfeeding.
– Child language and physical development – It is the mother who teaches the child to speak. Most of the first words are taught by the mother. She is the child’s language tutor. She observes the development of a child’s linguistics and follows it closely. The physical development of a child’s limbs and all mortal and skeletal development is aided by the mother.
– Household budget control – The mother formulates the household budget. She is the best person to know what running shorts are. The father simply has to meet the budget submitted by the mother, while the mother ensures that the funds provided are sufficient to cover all the essentials of the family’s needs.
– Atmosphere and perspective of the home: the furniture and decoration of the home are a reflection of the mother’s art and creativity. A man will not wake up and start decorating a house. The mother’s priority is to make the house a home by bringing the necessary flowers, fish tanks, rugs and rugs. The temperature of any home is determined by the mother.
– Family dietary needs – Preparation and preservation of food – Mothers worry about feeding their children. While the father can provide the necessary money for the purchase of food, the mother knows what to buy and in the appropriate amounts.
– Family health needs: the mother can know when a child is sick long before anyone else in the family. Most of the mothers are doctors who have not attended medical school but have learned over the years to work with what is available to restore health and vitality to their families. I remember that my mother prepared natural remedies for me before trying to take me to the hospital. He would only hand over the case if it persisted. At first I thought that there was not enough money to take me to the clinic, but then I realized that it is a passion in most mothers.
– Supporting the vision of the family: while the mother submits to the vision and dreams of the father, her role is to support and encourage the husband to dream even more. A woman is the helper while the husband is the hunter. Men want encouragement from their wives more than from anyone else.
– Celebrating each member of the family – Important dates such as birthdays are a mother’s priority. The women make each member feel part of the family. Celebrating these days gives family members a sense of belonging.