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There are two types of Mr. Wrongs. The first is the man who lacks the personal skills to have a healthy relationship. If you choose to commit to him, you must understand that he is not capable of emotionally connecting with you, your children, or your family. Therefore, you must be willing to live with this and accept it. The second type is a man who might be Mr. Wrong to you, but Mr. Right to someone else. He is able to emotionally connect with a woman, her children and her family. However, there may be that little voice inside you that tells you that something is not quite right… for you. The end result, as wonderful as it may be, if it doesn’t fit your relationship criteria, or if something is missing, then that makes him Mr. Wrong for you.

Although the world is full of Mr. Rights (fun loving, romantic, charming, strong and adventurous men) who are looking for the right woman, there are some men who will always be wrong for you. The Mr. Wrong you want to avoid is the man who isn’t looking, isn’t capable, and isn’t interested in a meaningful relationship with you. Below is a list of men who are wrong for the right reasons:

mr married

There is a married man who will pursue you as if he were single. He will flirt, buy you gifts and take you out to lunch. He will call you, email you, and make plans to be with you. However, he will not be able to take you out to dinner, the movies or the ballet. Neither will he be able to kiss you, touch you, or woo you in public.

The bottom line is this: a worthwhile woman doesn’t take things that don’t belong to her. Period.

The player

The player is amazing and the first to admit it. He is very independent and can take care of his needs on his own. In fact, he doesn’t even need you to have sex. He always has a woman willing and waiting to be his spoils.

The player is constantly meeting new women. He lives to play and plays to live. And when he is done playing with you, he will scroll down his phone list, connect and start the game again. It’s who he is and what he does.

mr addiction

When a man doesn’t live up to his own expectations, he often becomes addicted. Addiction is the coping mechanism he uses to deal with internal emotional pain. His addiction allows her a temporary escape from the real world and a means to suppress her feelings for him. Sadly, Mr. Addiction has lost touch with those he loves and those who love him. Even more tragic, he has lost touch with himself.

Until he seeks help, Mr. Addiction will shower you with romance and flowers, but not a future. Over time, he will be overwhelmed by her mood swings, depression, and his love of drugs, alcohol, porn, or power.

The liar

The liar will look you right in the eye and tell you everything he knows you are waiting to hear.

First, never believe what a stranger tells you. This is the biggest mistake women make. Second, stop being so gullible. And third, start taking responsibility for the men you meet.

The liar has a major character flaw: he can’t tell the truth! You just can’t help it when it comes to little white lies and exaggerations. After he is eventually caught, he is a master at convincing you that it really wasn’t his fault. For example, if you hadn’t left him alone to visit your parents for the weekend, he would never have gone to the club and slept with his ex.

the deceiver

Unlike the liar, who is honest in the fact that he knows it is wrong not to tell the truth, the deceiver lies to himself. In fact, The Deceiver is a man who has no idea who he really is, so he lives the life of the man he would like to be.

The deceiver is a master at luring you into what you think is a meaningful relationship. And truth be told, he thinks that’s what he wants too. The problem is that he has spent his life pretending to be someone he is not. So it only makes sense, if he doesn’t know who he really is, then he doesn’t really know what he really wants. He is unable to fall in love, settle down and commit to a woman. Rather, he wanders aimlessly from one meaningless encounter to another in search of what he doesn’t even know he’s looking for.

The Deceiver seduces you with fabulous music and promises of romantic getaways. This man will invite you, he will dine with you and even pray with you. But once he has attracted you and had sex with you, he leaves you in the worst way.

The Impostor is probably the most difficult Mr. Wrong to identify. That’s why you should go slow, abide by the general dating rules, and trust your gut when your internal alarm goes off and tells you something isn’t right.

The stalker

The bully attacks you with insulting comments, then quickly backs off and smiles. If you have to ask yourself this question, “I wonder, did I just get insulted or not?” then you are probably dating a bully. He wouldn’t let someone walk up to him and punch him in the stomach, but the bully deals an emotional blow to his self-esteem.

seperate lord

Mr. D. walks into your life and blows your mind. He wins you over with his wit, charm and personality. Before you know it, he has captured your heart. Suddenly, having won the prize, he stops playing.

Unfortunately for you, when the honeymoon ends, so does the relationship. Once it has worked to get you, it becomes unresponsive, unavailable, and withdraws completely. Mr. D. is hardworking, responsible, and personable at work. At home he is a different man. It’s not that he doesn’t want to be intimate with you, it’s that he doesn’t know how. Even he doesn’t understand how disconnected she is from his life.

Unfortunately, a relationship with Mr. Separated is very lonely. You see, even when he’s there, he’s gone.

sir maybe

Take a big red pen and write Mr. Maybe’s name and put a big question mark next to his name. Because that sums it up. Maybe call. Maybe he will send an email. Maybe he will think of you. But he maybe he won’t. If Mr. Maybe doesn’t know what he wants, then he probably doesn’t know what he has.

Mr. Maybe’s lack of commitment is annoying. Maybe you should move on?

mr bounce

…is a man with a broken heart. He has lost love through death, divorce, or breakup. Given time and space, Mr. Bounce could be someone’s Mr. Perfect. He just needs time to regroup. Until he has sorted out his emotional baggage, Mr. Bounce will rarely commit to the first women he dates after a breakup.

At first everything seems normal. That is, until his feelings settle down, his thought process resets, and he realizes that he made a mistake by getting involved too soon. Unfortunately, most men don’t know how to fix his broken heart. So instead of fixing what’s broken, he just goes out and finds another partner.

The easiest way to discover a Mr. Wrong is to not have sex with him. A man who is interested in a meaningful relationship will be interested in getting to know you as a person. He will care about your likes and dislikes. He will be looking for ways to please you. If, after spending some time getting to know you, and he sees the possibility that you are “the one,” then he will respect your decision to wait for physical intimacy. Mr. Right is looking for an intimate and emotionally connected relationship; therefore, he is willing to wait for a worthwhile woman.