Get it back, push it to fall in love again
Has your boyfriend or husband told you it’s over but you want to get it back? Feel like your heart has been ripped out and thrown aside like a used lemon peel? Do you seem like a completely different person from the man you love? He won’t talk to you and any discussion about the breakup or the conversation about getting back together is met with resistance, anger, or apathy?
Do not worry. It is absolutely possible to get it back. Over 90 percent of all breakups are easily resolved with a little understanding and a few secret tricks that most women don’t even think about until it’s too late. When is it too late? Well, it’s never really too late, but if your ex moves into another relationship, it brings with it a number of complications that would probably be best avoided if possible.
The problem with the methods that are really effective in getting your ex back is that they are very contrary to what you might think would work. You might think that you need to change everything about you that your ex said was bothering him for you and then everything will be fine, right? Wrong! You’re thinking that if you can show him how much you love him by staying dedicated to him during your breakup, this will get him back, right? Wrong! You might also think that if you are in contact with him, he will forget about you or think that you have moved on or that you don’t care.
All the methods that you have already used or that you think will help you get your ex back are likely to be wrong. The simple truth is, all the pushing she’s doing to try and get her man back is pushing him further away. Pushing him to talk about his relationship and everything that went wrong is pushing him away. Pushing him to talk about getting back together or how they have changed is simply pushing him away. All the pushing you’re doing by contacting him is pushing him away.
But what happens when you stop pushing? What if your boyfriend or husband was in front of you right now and you physically pushed him and suddenly stopped? His stamina would make him overcompensate and he would fall. Wouldn’t it be great if you could do that in your relationship and make him fall in love with you again? In a sense, this is exactly what happens in a relationship where the dynamics are out of balance and one partner wants the relationship and the other doesn’t. Once all the pressure is removed from the relationship, emotions and feelings begin to balance again.
Once you stop pushing and the emotions, feelings, and dynamics of your relationship begin to return to normal, you have a better chance of getting your ex to fall in love with you again. Once all the pressure is removed from your ex, you can get him back with a speed that will blow you away. At first, he may be relieved that you don’t call him all the time and there is no doubt that he will not miss talking about negative things like what went wrong in your relationship. But soon his mind will start to think of you … he will start to miss you … he will wonder where you are and what you are doing and then it is time to strike.
Once his defenses are weakened and he is no longer so defensive, you can use your magic and convince him to come back to you. That’s when you can get it back. It’s not until the power dynamics of your relationship return to normal that you’ll even be able to convince him that there was once something like true love between the two of you. But once you stop pushing and let things get back to normal, you will find that your heart is ready for harvest and you will be successful in getting it back.