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This Valentine’s Day, give a special touch to everything you have planned by ending the evening with a super fabulous massage just for her. This selfless act is not only a super romantic way to make her feel special and show her how much you care, but it also gives her a chance to relax and be pampered by you. So get ready to rock her world with a sexy and sensual massage that she will hopefully never forget!

Getting ready:

Step 1: choose the space

So before you get to the part where you are almost (or completely) naked and covered in oil, make sure you have everything well thought out. It is important to create a comfortable space free from distractions (ie cell phones turned off!) Where you can set the mood for a romantic massage. The bedroom is probably an ideal place for most, but creating a smooth surface on the floor works great too. If you are using the bed, make sure it is well prepared by using clean sheets (which is fine for her to put on oil as it can stain) or even covering the bed with towels. Presentation is important here, so make sure it looks good, and whatever you do, no sticky beach towels! If you’re desperate, check the dollar store for some white or neutral-colored towels or sheets that won’t push you too far back. Staining your 600 thread count Egyptian cotton bedding with massage oil is not romantic!

Step 2: Set the mood

Now that you have chosen the space, it is important to make sure you have all the massage items that are essential to setting the mood and creating the right atmosphere. It is up to you how far you want to take it, but things like scented candles (avoiding anything too scented or strong), rose petals, and soothing music are great ways to create a relaxing atmosphere and make it romantic.

Step 3: get the products

Having a good massage oil on hand is essential to achieve a relaxing experience for both of you. Avoid anything with too strong a scent and look for specific massage products as they provide the most pleasant texture and don’t absorb too quickly (reapplying every minute ruins the flow). If you are looking for an alternative to massage oils, there are also massage bars that melt on contact with the skin, as well as massage candles that work like hot oil when poured onto the skin. Although they provide the most pleasant experience, you don’t necessarily need fancy massage products to get the job done. If necessary, you can use a rich body butter, baby oil or sunflower oil, adding a few drops of an essential oil to give it fragrance. Olive oil is absolutely impossible! Smelling like Greek salad is not a good way to put her in the mood. Also avoid lubricant. Sure, it works, but it’s also suggestive and a bit rough. Let’s keep the class.

Techniques application:

Step 4: Give the massage

Now, the most important part; giving an incredible massage. Once you are lying down, put a pillow under your feet to make it more comfortable. Gently put some massage oil on your hands and rub them together. This heats up the oil and is better than pouring it directly onto your skin, which may be cold and a little shaken. Avoid using too much oil, which will make the massage slippery and difficult (you can always add more). Slow and continuous movement is important for a good massage. Allow one blow to develop into another, while slowly moving to other areas of your body. Start with her neck and shoulders, using your thumbs and fingertips to gently knead her skin. Put less pressure on your neck, as this area is often very tender to the touch. Gradually move in a circular motion from your upper back, to your sides, and then to your lower back. Apply additional oil as needed and continue down both legs (focusing on one leg at a time), until you reach your feet. Massage the soles of your feet in constant circular motions with your thumbs, applying a little more pressure to avoid tickling.

Step 5: Know the pleasure points

Pay attention to areas of your body that are not stimulated frequently. Try stroking erogenous zones like the backs of the knees, ears, nape, and wrists. Make sure you don’t forget to massage your scalp, as this area is often overlooked during a massage. Just make sure your hands are oil-free if you get close to her hair, or that nice idea may not be as welcome for her.

Step 6: Get their feedback

Communication is the key to an incredible massage. Always pay attention to her body language and how she responds to different strokes, the level of pressure, and where you are massaging her. If you are not sure, ask politely what feels good and if the pressure is right. Spend more time on the areas to which you respond positively with verbal cues or physical cues of enjoyment.

Other considerations:

Keep distractions to a minimum. This experience should consist of the two of you connecting and enjoying your time together, so cell phones, televisions, and any other potential distractions should be eliminated.

Avoid the rush and reserve enough time. To give a massage correctly, you must dedicate at least 20 to 30 minutes. The slower and longer you can massage it, the more relaxing and sensual the experience will be.

Raise the heat, literally. It’s no fun being exposed and covered in oil when it’s freezing. By keeping the temperature above 75 degrees F, you will ensure that you stay warm and comfortable so that you can enjoy the experience.

Be gentle. Go easy, Hulk. It is important to remember that the level of pressure that she might prefer is probably not the one that feels best for her. She is delicate and women are much more sensitive to touch than men, so take the pressure off. Unless she requests otherwise, soft, smooth strokes are generally preferred.

Don’t forget the extras. This all depends on your relationship level, personal preferences, and your imagination. Incorporating other elements can eventually take a sensual massage into naughtier territory and be a perfect way to spice it up a bit. Items like feather tickling, hot lube, eye bandages, and edible body paints are great ways to add some sexy fun.