Talking dirty: What is it and how is it done?
Dirty talk, sometimes referred to as naughty talk or sexy talk, is a sexual game involving sexual or sensual phrases to drive one’s and partner’s passion and sexual pleasure through words during sex. Through words, one can stimulate your and your partner’s major senses, including touch, sight, and hearing. Talking dirty is a great way to express one’s desires and emotions during the heat of the moment. When done right, dirty talk is one of the best things a girl can do for her lover.
types of dirty talk
Dirty talk phrases can be categorized as soft or hard.
gentle:
Basic squishy phrases include sweet and not so dirty words and phrases. This is a great way to start having sex, especially during foreplay. Some people make the mistake of assuming that dirty talk is always about vulgar words and phrases, even moaning and other “sex soundtrack” sounds are a form of dirty talk. The most important thing to know is that both parties need to feel comfortable and free enough with themselves for dirty talk to be effective. They can start talking dirty and turn each other on by flirting and making simple statements that work very well. Here are some examples of soft-core phrases you can use:
“I love the sparkle in your eyes, I could look at them all day”
“Baby, your arms are the strongest that have ever held me, the way you hold me in a tight hug takes my breath away”
“My body aches from your touch, my skin itches from your fingers, my lips contract from your tongue”
“Your wish is my command, my prince”
Hard:
Hardcore, unlike softcore, involves the use of naughty words, slang, and swear words. Most lovers find hard and dirty phrases to be extremely hot and sensual, although learning how to use them takes more time than soft phrases. However, once perfected, harsh phrases can completely change the way two people have sex and increase the confidence and even the performance of two lovebirds. Here are some examples of hard core dirty talk phrases.
“I want you inside of me right now”
“I want you to come down on me now, hulk!”
Talking dirty is something that should come naturally, but you have to learn how to do it. As you practice this, be sure to be descriptive and creative and compliment your man on his performance.